Make future plans with your partner
One of the things that can keep your relationship intact despite being physically far from each other is making future plans. Having future plans gives you something to hold on to when it feels like you and your partner cannot stand being apart from each other. From being able to live together under one roof to eating in the same restaurant on a regular basis, these plans can serve as an end goal for you and your partner, which can motivate you to keep the relationship alive despite the hardships that you may experience.
Discuss the common problems in long distance relationships
Before you and your partner physically part ways, you should have a private talk regarding the common problems in long distance relationships, such as the lack of physical intimacy and the different time zones. These are the types of problems that can only be solved by talking about them in person since they often require lengthy conversations wherein body language plays a major part. This will also give you and your partner ample time and opportunity to discuss if a long distance relationship is indeed feasible.
Establish multiple lines of communication
Do your research regarding the phone apps and computer programs that you and your partner can use to communicate with each other before you physically separate. This ensures that both of you’ve peace of mind in the fact that communication won’t be a problem even before you live on different continents. This will make it easier for both of you to make the transition from having a physical relationship into having a relationship that is connected by Facebook messages or Skype calls since both of you already know how to use these apps properly.
Make a list of do’s and don’ts
Set boundaries on what types of behavior will be acceptable for both you and your partner. Is it okay for you and your partner to spend every Saturday night with friends? Will you feel angry if your partner forgets to call or contact you for two straight days? Determining these small details before physically parting ways ensures that you and your partner avoid small things that can set the other person off or offend the other person. This will make it easier for you to avoid fights that are almost impossible to solve without a face-to-face interaction.
Through these steps, you’ll be able to avoid most of the common problems that plague couples who are trying to make a [thirstylink linkid=”13284″ linktext=”long distance relationship” title=”long distance relationship“] work.
