When you like a person, everything is magnified, everything good that is, and you tend to neglect some serious telltale signs because the slightest hint of goodness in the man completely overshadows his ineptness to be emotionally ready and be there for you. The complicated part is that he isn’t a bad person; not at all. He is perfectly perched on that middle point between good boy and goodbye that his ambiguous charm just blinds you to stay with him until you finally get tired of it all. Unfortunately, he has the power over you and the excuses to get away from his playful tendencies with your emotions. 
So how do you know if he is emotionally ready and capable of having a relationship with you? Below are some of the signs of emotionally unavailable men that you’ve to watch out for.
Entangled
Guys who would have the guts to say that he is committed, either with a girlfriend or with his wife, has already saved you from a period of misery that you’d really rather not have. Don’t take this as a sales pitch; run away as fast as you can. There’s a certain charm to the things we cannot covet, but there’s actually a good reason for this. He can do the same thing to you.
Disentangled
Being separated or just recently divorced is also a sign for you to back off, especially with those who just got out of the mess they dug themselves into. Such men still have unsettled business even if it appears that they have already cleared their heads of their personal demons.
Long-Distance Relationships
This set-up might work for a while, in some cases a very short while. But as a whole, long distance relationships are really bound to dry up unless both parties decide to do something about it and make the next step. If he is hesitant and expresses no interest for a closer arrangement, it’s really time to get out of that relationship.
Tech-Savvy is Equal to Social Ineptness
Have you ever had a date with a guy who virtually couldn’t put his phone down, even as he pees? Or the man who’d rather scroll down his tablet than go out with his friends to watch football? These are huge neon signs of emotionally unavailable men that point to a lack of concern and understanding for other human beings, and this group includes you.
Ambiguity as a Safety Blanket
Uncertainty creates a gray area that puts the both of you in the dark. However, in this situation, it was calculated to work to his advantage. It’s actually normal for people to feel their way into a relationship. What’s not normal is avoiding the acknowledgment of what you’ve with him.
Such signs of men that aren’t emotionally ready are actually so easy to spot. Just don’t let romance blind you from being the smart and lovable woman that you really are.
